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Writing an Obituary

January 24, 2023

Writing an Obituary

Writing an Obituary

When a loved one dies, you and your family will want to do everything you can to make sure that they are remembered in a positive light. The entire funeral that you are planning will be a way for you and your family to show just how much you loved your relative. It will be full of memories, laughter, and so much love. Another way to make sure that you are showing your love for your loved one is through a well-written obituary. Obituaries are used to tell the guests and anyone who may be present at the funeral who your loved one is. It is a chance for you to tell the story of your loved one’s life. It is a big honor to be able to write a eulogy. If you need any help, you can contact cremation services in Phoenix, AZ. They can answer all the questions that you may have.

What Is an Obituary?

An obituary is written to tell the story of your loved one. These will often be in the funeral program. There will even be a part of the funeral where the obituary will be silently read by everyone in attendance at the funeral. It is something you and your family should be patient with when you are writing it.

What Should Be in an Obituary?

  • Name – This is obvious, but it should still be mentioned. If you want, you can also add in any of the nicknames that you and your family called your loved one.
  • Age, Birth, and Death Date – Adding in the age, and the dates of their birth and death is a good thing to do. Some of the people who attend the funeral may not know these dates.
  • Early Life – When you start to get to the body of the obituary, you will want to start with their early life. You can speak about where they grew up, how many siblings they had, and so much more from their early life. This is the section where you can talk about college and their life as a young person.
  • Summary of Their Life – In this portion of the obituary, you should speak about what type of work they did, if they were married, when they got married, and any other details that may seem important at this time. You will have limited space for the obituary, so you should make sure that you are putting in the parts that are the most important.Cremation Services in Scottsdale AZ 9 300x200
  • Surviving Family Members – You will want to make sure that you include surviving family members. This could be a spouse, children, and any other relatives
  • Burial Details – And finally, you can add where they will be buried.

Is an Obituary Necessary?

No. You do not have to write an obituary, but most people will want to simply because it is a way for them to speak about their loved one in their own words.

Writing an obituary is a lot of work. You should make sure that when you sit down to do it, you get input from all of your loved ones. You will not want to leave anything out, and they may know things that you have forgotten. If you need any help , you can contact cremation services in Phoenix, AZ.

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