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Patricia Joyce Forister

Patricia Joyce Forister
On March 16, 2018 Patricia Joyce Forister, beloved wife and mother returned to our heavenly father. She is survived by her loving husband of 63 years Don Forister who literally gifted her the world as the wife of a career Air Force service member. She travelled the world with her husband, forged a career as an Accountant and lovingly raised three children into successful adults before releasing them to the world to choose their own path. Even though her family circled the world over the course of their lives, they all settled close within a mile for her final years. She leaves behind three children, Scott Forister and Kathy Forister of Chandler Arizona, Mark Forister of Florence, four grandchildren Amber Neuhring, Benjamin Forister (Sergio Villa Forister), Jacob Forister and Abigail Forister and two great-grandchildren, Dorothy Neuhring and Michael Neuhring who all loved her dearly.

She led a full and amazing life before she was taken from us at the age of 83. She raised three children sometimes on her own while her husband served abroad. She supported her husband and her family through every endeavor and dream, through careers, education and sports, and she supported them through marriage, divorce and single parenting. She beamed with pride at graduations and cheered the loudest from the sidelines leaving no doubt you were the brightest light of her life. She was the foundation upon which our family was built.

She never hesitated to help family and friends be it loans, labor, advice or a shoulder to lean on, and when necessary she delivered the hard truths with a slice humor and compassion. She was a fierce champion and a loyal friend to all who knew her. She will be remembered by many.

She successfully battled a very large brain tumor at the age of 80 with the help of her brilliant Neurosurgeon Dr. Mark Garrett who saved her life and restored her to her family for what should have been another decade or more of adventures. Regrettably, failures in her recovery process did not permit the second chance she was given to cement, but we are eternally grateful for the blessing of three more years.

Pat was born in Three Rivers Michigan on January 29, 1935 and spent her childhood in Dewitt, MI and Gary, IN. Her parents Jack and Edna Cotton moved their family to Phoenix , Arizona to pursue their dreams of starting their own family business in 1950. Cotton Meat Company was a community staple for decades that provided stability for their family. It also provided the first employment experience for most of their grandchildren who skinned deer or wrapped meat butchered by their fathers and uncles or learned accounting from Pat who managed the books. She was the last survivor of her Cotton family and was predeceased by her parents Jack (1980) and Edna (1985) and her brothers Max (2005), Carlton (1991), Jack (2007), Larry (1991) and Robert (2011) all of whom greeted her at the gates of heaven.

Services will be held on April 3, 2018 10:00am at Bueler’s Mortuary 14 W Hulet Drive, Chandler, Arizona 85225

1 Comment

  • David Mathis Posted March 26, 2018 4:44 PM

    I have many great memories of Aunt Pat. My dad and Uncle Don were stationed in Germany at the same time I used took forward to a weekend when they would come from the base they were stationed at to come visit, or when we went to see them. Us kids would spend hours playing in the beautiful German country side. While Aunt Pat and the rest of adults played cards and enjoyed a cup of coffee. As an adult I always made sure I went for a visit when I went home to Hobart OK on n military leave. I really enjoyed talking to my Aunt and Uncle. Pat was the most upbeat person I ever knew, she always had a smile and something good to say about everyone. Rest in peace, you will live in my heart forever.

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